About Us

 MD and I have been married for a little more then 10 years. We have 6 children and this is our second marriage for both of us. We are in a domestic discipline marriage or a D/s dynamic. MD is my Master, and leader of the family. I am His submissive/bottom. I willingly submit give up control  (well... still learning) and happy about it!

MD and I have always had a good relationship right from the start, but we still had our problems hanging around. Not the ones that would want us to get a divorce but ones where we both kind of new things needed to change. We both have strong personalities and both wanted to respect each other. One of us had to submit so the other could be HoH (head of house). SUBMIT! That FOR SURE wasn't going to be a dominant by nature guy. This is where my submission to MD started.

I have read on many blogs how people have discovered that they desired or even craved a D/s type relationship or a DD marriage. When this realization has taken place they now have to approach their spouse or partner about their desires, wants and in a lot of people it can be a need . This isn't how it happen with us. We actually started sending clues to each other around the same time and we both ended up on the same page knowing what each other wanted. This happened over several months. I am the one that did most the research on the lifestyle and sifted out the ones that would benefit MD the most. It was still a long slow process. I was the one ready to fully engage in this. MD due to a crazy schedule had a harder time. But here we are hanging in there with less problems, loving and hating the journey. It's kind of a love hate relationship with this kind of lifestyle for me. If any one says it's easy it's a LIE! Don't believe them. Just no!

And so it begins. I will blog about us and our interesting and a lot of times ho hum relationship. We are not perfect at this, but we are wanting a DD marriage to work as much as possible. I will be honest in my posting and MD in his posting will be honest as well. My blog in no way reflects how everyone lives or views our life style. I know there will be haters and lovers. It's okay because this is not for everyone. But if you have a kinky side. It might be right up your alley. Oh, did I forget? We definitely have a kinky relationship that would make any vanilla person hide in shame.